{"id":3092,"date":"2025-04-01T13:21:03","date_gmt":"2025-04-01T10:51:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/liispaemurru.com\/?p=3092"},"modified":"2025-04-01T13:21:03","modified_gmt":"2025-04-01T10:51:03","slug":"inimlikkusest","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/liispaemurru.com\/en\/inimlikkusest\/","title":{"rendered":"Kuidas mudida inimlikkust?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Inimlikkus on s\u00f5na, mis tundub korraga nii iseenesestm\u00f5istetav ja samas hirmutavalt suur. Oleme ju inimesed, eks? Aga kas oleme inimlikud? Ja kui me ei ole, kas siis saab seda kuidagi teadlikult harjutada, lihvida, mudida? Ma usun, et k\u00f5ikidele “pehmetele oskustele” lisaks on see lausa h\u00e4davajalik.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kus oled sina inimlikku k\u00e4itumist kohanud? Minu jaoks ei avaldu inimlikkus suurtes deklaratsioonides, vaid hoopiski tillukestes hetkedes. Kuidas sa kuulad? Mida sa teed siis, kui keegi eksib? Mida sa teed siis, kui ise eksid? Kui kiiresti sa annad hinnangu, teed j\u00e4relduse? Need on kohad, kus inimlikkus saab kuju ja vormi. Aga selleks, et see ei kivistuks, tuleb seda aeg-ajalt mudida.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mudimine ei ole viga parandav tegevus. See on osa elamisest ja elust sotsiaalse olendina. See on k\u00fcsimine iseendalt – kas ma olen enda ja teistega aus ja ehe? Millise j\u00e4lje m endast j\u00e4tan? Kui palju ruumi ma inimestele enda \u00fcmber annan? See on oskus peatuda hetkeks enne, kui reageerin. Ja julgus vaadata endale otsa isegi siis, kui see on ebamugav.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f6\u00f6 kontekstis r\u00e4\u00e4gime sageli pigem professionaalsusest, rollidest ja eesm\u00e4rkidest ja kaotame \u00fchenduse iseendaga. Kui inimlikkus kaob, v\u00f5ivad otsapidi k\u00f5ik olulised v\u00e4\u00e4rtused lagunema hakata ja j\u00f5uda kohta, kus n\u00e4iteks huumor, m\u00f5istmine v\u00f5i ebat\u00e4iuslikkus pole teretulnud. Seep\u00e4rast tasub aeg-ajalt t\u00f6\u00f6l oma meeskonnaga teadlikult baasi juurde tagasi tulla. Korrakski. K\u00f5igepealt iseenda ja siis teiste juurde.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kuidas siis inimlikkust mudida?<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

See on paus enne sildistamist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

See on aus \u00fctlemine “Ma ei tea.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

See on kellegi kuulamine sooviga olla toeks, mitte parandada.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

See on enese vastu leebe olemine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

See on erinevate vaatenurkade m\u00f5istmine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Minu t\u00f6\u00f6s \u2013 olgu selleks juhtide n\u00f5ustamine, meeskondade toetamine v\u00f5i individuaalne ps\u00fchholoogiline t\u00f6\u00f6 \u2013 on inimlikkus alati esikohal. Vahel kui v\u00e4ljakutse, vahel kui kingitus. Sest ega see inimlikkus pole midagi, mis \u00fche korraga tehtud ja valmis on. See on valitud teekond ja teadlik rada. Soovin sullegi sellel rajal p\u00f5nevat k\u00e4iku ja avastamist!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Inimlikkus on s\u00f5na, mis tundub korraga nii iseenesestm\u00f5istetav ja samas hirmutavalt suur. Oleme ju inimesed, eks? Aga kas oleme inimlikud? Ja kui me ei ole, kas siis saab seda kuidagi teadlikult harjutada, lihvida, mudida? Ma usun, et k\u00f5ikidele “pehmetele oskustele” lisaks on see lausa h\u00e4davajalik. Kus oled sina inimlikku k\u00e4itumist kohanud? Minu jaoks ei avaldu […]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3093,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"set","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3092","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/liispaemurru.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3092","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/liispaemurru.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/liispaemurru.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/liispaemurru.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/liispaemurru.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3092"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/liispaemurru.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3092\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3094,"href":"https:\/\/liispaemurru.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3092\/revisions\/3094"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/liispaemurru.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3093"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/liispaemurru.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3092"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/liispaemurru.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3092"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/liispaemurru.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3092"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}